The sister-in-law once told me..
“he doesn’t deserve you. Kung sinasabi nya na ayaw nya matulad kay Papa, sa ginawa nya sayo mas malala pa sya kay Papa eh! Difference lang is wala sya binuntis! But he’s worst! Pinagsabay nya kayo?! Para saan? What will he get out of it?! Bragging rights na madami nagkakagusto sa kanya?! Sa anytime pwede sya magpalit ng babae kung gugustuhin nya?! Hindi ganyan pagkakakilala ko sa kanya! I know he’s more than that! Anu yun.. gumaganti sya sa ginawa ni Papa sa mama nya? Eh bakit ikaw yung gagantihan?!”

The Aunt said:
“you deserve someone better tin. I know sobrang mahal mo sya.. but he doesn’t feel the same way anymore kasi meron syang ibang nakita. It’s unfair. We just can’t do anything anymore. Kasi… you should’ve considered the fact na meron sya pagnananahan from both sides of her parents. Hindi ba enough na reason yun para ma-turn off ka sa kanya? Kasi he’s from a broken family? It’s good to hear na you don’t give importance on those things.. pero next time, you should consider those din. He doesn’t deserve you..”

“hiyang hiya ako sayo.. and sa family mo. I know you’ve treated him well. I really appreciate everything you’ve done for him, for Linda, and for the rest of our family. I know you have sacrificed your time for your family para sa kanila ng mama nya. Ako na humihingi ng sorry para sa kanya Tin.. learn from those things, forgive everthing he did, and be thankful na ngayon pa lang nangyari na to.. kasi kung tatagal pa.. mas masasaktan ka lang. kasi mangyayari at mangyayari yun, kung talagang ugali na nya yan.. hindi na maaalis sa kanya yan.”

“when I found out na sinampal ka nya.. kahit biro yun, malakas or hindi.. sampal pa din yun. I was really thankful na you didn’t report him to the authorities. I know how much you cared for him and how much you love him.. and I know those were the reasons why you didn’t do anything against him. istorbo sayo, sa pamilya mo, at samin din.. pero thank you kasi ikaw yung mas nag-isip ng consequences na pwede nyo harapin if magrereklamo ka pa. I support Women’s Rights Movements and if ever lumala yun situation nyo ang umabot sa point na idedemanda mo sya, anon a lang sasabihin ng mga kasamahan ko.. alam ko masakit lahat ng to.. pero sana isipin mo na lang na this is God’s way of showing you na hindi ito yung buhay na plano Nya for you.. and kung kayo man ni Jolo in the end, everything will fall into places maghiwalay man kayo ngayon..”

“matigas talaga ulo ni jolo.. parang mama nya. Balewala sa kanya yung mga ginawa mo, ang gusto lang nya eh yung magiging Masaya sya. Hindi nya naiisip na may nasasaktan sya. Yan ang namana nya sa mama nya. Thank you kasi pinilit mo sya intindihin despite of all the things he has done to you. Hindi man nya mrealize lahat ng to ngayon.. pag Dyos na ang naningil.. alam mo na.. Dyos na ang bahalang gumanti para sayo”

The cousin said:
“ang lalake pag sinabing hindi na sya Masaya.. ibig sabihin sa iba na sya Masaya. Ganyan din sinabi sakin ng ex husband ko. Let him go Tin. He doesn’t deserve you. Kasi you deserve someone better. We deserve someone better. Tatanda sya na ganyan.. hihintayin mo pa ban a mag-asawa na kayo tapos mambababae nanaman sya? Hindi na sya magbabago. Hindi na mawawala sa kanya yan.. you deserve to be happy Tin.”

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