open letter to Chris Quinilog

I never volunteered to be our function’s POC for the Dress Code Policy.  never would have. And kung ako yun masusunod.. irerequire ko na lang lahat ng agents na mag-uniform para wala na ko huhulihin pa. anu ba mapapala ko kung mahuli kayo ng mga POC? Wala naman ako PhP5000 bonus everytime may makakasama sa report. Hindi ko naman ikayayaman yan! Hindi ko din naman pwede ilagay sa <insert name of company here> Values yan kasi hindi ko naman extra mile yan. Don’t you know what my task is? Overall POC ako pero taga-send lang ako ng reports. Reports from POCs or if kinukwestyon ng ibang tao yung suot ng agents.
When I saw you in the lobby that morning, I still consider you as a friend. Even days before that. I approached you, yes. What I said was
“yung sa dress code po.. diba mejo manipis yung mga blouse/tops mo.. un sheer tops mo po.. icconfirm ko muna if allowed sya or do we have to wear anything on top of it.. kasi nakalagay sa bagong dress code policy, hindi sya pwede eh.. confirm ko muna then I’ll let you know..”
I never said wag mo isuot yun! I never said bawal yung suot mo.
That’s why nagulat ako when I learned na inaway mo si kuya jet. Sabi mo DAW kay kuya jet “ayaw kitang maging friend kasi friend mo yung taong ayoko maging friend!”
Dahil lang sa dress code?
Inisip ko nun una, thankful ako kasi hindi ka nakikisawsaw sa issues naming ng mga kaibigan mo. Naappreciate ko pa nga eh. Kasi naiintindihan ko kung hindi mo na lang ako kakausapin para lang wala issue. Kasi hindi ako ganun eh. Kahit friend ka ng mga kaaway ko, hindi kita idadamay kasi pagkaka-alam ko ok naman tayo. Kasi akala ko wala ako issue sayo. Away nga ni ate Yvonne & EJ hindi ako nangielam eh. Mas mabigat pa yung issue nila. Kasi hindi ako ganun. Hindi ko ugali makisawsaw sa issue ng iba!
I wouldn’t question what school did you graduated from. Pero akala ko ba valedictorian ka? Akala ko matalino ka. Kasi inexpect ko nanaiintindihan mo yung sinabi ko. You may have misunderstood me, or just like what someone said, baka na-misinterpret mo yung sinabi ko. But hey! Kahit pa magka-ganun… I’ve expected more from you. You should’ve known na hindi ako yung nagpa-implement ng Dress Code Policy na yan. You could’ve checked it yourself first kung feeling mo eh gumagawa lang aq ng way para memasabi lang. you cou;d’ve done all of those. And if, after you’ve done everything just to make sure na you didn’t and you never have violated everything, pwede mo ko i-report. You could’ve made an incident report and complain. You coul’ve talked to me, to my supervisor, to your supervisor.. to anyone. Kasi if ako yun.. I wouldn’t be bothered for as long as alam ko wala ako ginagawa mali.
I never thought na mamasamain mo yun pag-a-advise na ginawa ko about sa dress code policy. My intention then is to warn you para hindi ka makasama sa report. Pero siguro tama nga yung isang supervisor.. mas ok pa kung hindi na lang kita sinabihan. Baka mas naappreciate mo pa kung nakasama ka na lang sa report.
Minsan talaga mahirap din maging mabait. sama ko na din pagpili ng kakaibiganin. Tama nga si Jay. Iba yung kaibigan, kesa officemates lang. I’ll keep that in mind.


i love you jose paolo ambat to the moon and back!
my knight in shining armor. and i couldn’t ask for more 😘

hey charlie! it’s my birthday!

no. i don’t know anyone by that name. hehehehe..
it was my birthday last monday. yes, some of my friends greeted me via Facebook. some did send me text messages. if not for Facebook, will they know that it was indeed my birthday?
I know keith would. since we were once the best of friends during college years. i’m sure mike and van would definitely remember it. my cousins, and other relatives, yes. don’t get me wrong. i appreciated the effort coming from my facebook friends (classmates, and acquaintaces). with my office friends, it was only alvin who greeted me the next day. he announced it to the team, so others greeted me as well. i didnt expect nga na he’ll remember it. but with my other office friends, those whom i thought know me too well.. well.. so much for me keeping tab on their birthdays. sbi nga, it’s better to give than to receive 😉

the hangover 2

it’s just now that i saw this entry in my drafts. well..
january 2, 2014
after new year’s day dinner with his relatives, my boyfriend and i went out last night.
six of us went in to this comedy bar in metrowalk (ortigas).
had too much alcohol in my stomach (too much, since i stopped taking alcoholic drinks almost 3yrs ago). i had 4 shots of tequila, a shot of vodka, and 3 bottles of san mig light.
vomited on the way to aunt’s house. vomited again near imperial palace in qc, and again upon reaching bf’s house in qc.
bf’s mom opened the door, i immediately went to the bathroom to throw up again.
i remember bf changing my clothes and asking me to go upstairs to sleep.
when i woke up at 9.30 in the morning.. boom!
i was lying on the couch, with only a headache & an upset stomach with me.
ouch. never again. sorry vodka. you are really not my type!